I love my job, I even check CVs and give advice (usually when asked) outside of work. Sometimes I don't even consider it to be a job, more of a hobby. The danger is of course that my work life balance can become, well, unbalanced.
What is work life balance I hear you cry? It's personal...it's about being in control; the more 'out of control' you feel, the more 'imbalanced' your life will feel. They key to regaining your balance, so to speak, is to recognise the symptoms of when you are and are not in balance.
Start by considering what is important to you. This could be many things, your partner, family, work, career, finances, friends, social life, health...the list goes on. There is no wrong or right answer, as I said, it's a personal thing. You will find as you go through your life that all of these things will become more or less important to you at different stages.
Think about when you are at your most happy, are there any patterns? E.g. are you happiest when you are surrounded by your family? Is there any situation in which you find yourself unhappy? Where could you be happier? If there is more than one situation, which would make the biggest difference to your life right now? E.g. if you are worrying about your finances and you hate your job, which is giong to make the biggest difference?
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